Your Story Is Not Your Identity!

Come Home to Yourself With Jesus

Learn how to calm your nervous system, understand your wounds, and discover the safety, identity, and hope God created in You.

Let’s create beauty by submitting our trauma to the light of Jesus Truth!

  • Do you feel like your too sensitive?

  • Do you believe YOU are the problem?

  • Do you believe you will never get over it?

  • You are in the right place!

Start with my online self-paced Biblical Trauma Coaching course; led by me: Wilma Kinsman your very own personal trauma coach. One on One personal coaching available, as well.

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“Shame stuck in the body is like being nauseous and unable to throw up.” - Curt Thompson

There is always a pearl in the poop. But you may have to put your boots on and go digging for it.

My Story

I grew up in an Amish community and left at 17, unaware of the deep trauma and spiritual abuse that had shaped the way I viewed God, relationships, and myself. For years, I carried shame I didn't know how to name. Healing didn't happen overnight, but God faithfully met me in my brokenness and taught me what it truly means to "Be still, and know that I am God."

My journey has included betrayal, divorce, abuse of trust, profound grief, and choices I deeply regret. For a long time, I believed my failures and wounds defined me. I also found myself repeating unhealthy relationship patterns because dysfunction had become familiar. It wasn't until I cried out to God and surrendered my need to rescue everyone else that everything began to change.

The Lord gently showed me that I wasn't called to be anyone's savior. Only Jesus can heal hearts. My role was to receive His healing and learn to walk in the freedom He offers.

Today, I am blessed to be married to a man I don't have to fix. We are two imperfect people pursuing Christ together. My story has taught me that growing up in trauma often makes unhealthy relationships feel normal—but it doesn't have to stay that way. Healing is possible. Healthy relationships are possible. Freedom from shame is possible.

As a Registered Nurse (RN, BSN) and a Certified Biblical Trauma Coach through Nothing Is Wasted Ministries, I bring both clinical understanding and biblical hope to the healing journey. I know what it feels like to wonder:

  • Why am I still triggered?

  • Does this mean I don't have enough faith?

  • Will I ever feel whole?

  • Is healing really possible for someone like me?

If you've asked those questions, you're not alone.

My passion is to provide a safe, grace-filled space where you can be honest without fear of judgment. Together, we'll explore how trauma affects the mind, body, and spirit while keeping Christ at the center of the healing process. My desire isn't to "fix" you—it's to walk beside you as God restores what trauma has tried to steal.

I believe Isaiah 61 is still true today: God brings beauty from ashes, comfort to the brokenhearted, and freedom to those who feel captive. No matter what your story holds, it does not have to define your future.

If God could redeem my story, He can bring hope to yours too. I'd be honored to walk alongside you as you discover the healing, freedom, and peace He has been inviting you into all along.

The best is yet to come.

"Let your roots grow down into Him, and let your lives be built on Him.” Colossians 2:7

Hi there! I’m (Wilma)!

Learn more about me

I’m a recovering Amish, RN and Certified Biblical Trauma Coach. I love Jesus and He is the reason I’m still alive. I have survived childhood trauma, divorce and abortion. I long to help others see the Truth about their trauma and who they are in Christ. Trauma produces lies within our shame and wounds; it takes awareness of these lies to exchange them with God’s Truth.

Shame is evil’s weapon used against us to keep us stuck in a rut. The Holy Spirit can empower us through Truth.

I want to help you grow in the Truth through walking out your healing. We can do that together.

Jesus is coming to find you in your trauma and I will be His hands and feet.

Together we will find the pearls in the poop, even if we have to put our boots and gloves on.

I look forward to watching how the Lord shows us truth and helps each of you to walk out of your shame.

  • Wilma is meant to be a coach! Having walked through her own trauma, Wilma is able to connect with her clients with a level of empathy and compassion that allows for a safe and healing space. She holds space for her clients to process their emotions without rushing them to move on. Wilma also has a gift for asking just the right question at the right time in a way that inspires reflection and curiosity in her clients that leads to their own revelation and insights (pearls in the poop!). She blances seiousenss with her own authentic "Wilma-style," which is both endearing and reassuring to her clients. Anyone would be blessed to work with her! Tara

    Your tears tell the world what your heart needs.

  • There is Hope in overcoming our triggers.

    There is hope its found in being aware of our trauma and understand we are having a normal response to an abnormal event.

  • Safety is healing. Safe relationships are ones where we are received as we are with no judgement. Jesus is safe, He see's us and he knows all the good and bad and does not shame us for it.

    How do you know if people are safe?

Certified Biblical Trauma Coaching

Jesus is coming to find you in your trauma. Shame is subtle and silent. You don’t need to get out of your pit before you come to Jesus. He climbs in with us.

Have you read my book? Dancing on The Dumpster By Willie J

To learn more about who I am: Check out my book on amazon: Dancing on the Dumpster, By Willie J.

Psalm 113:7 He lifts the poor from dust and the needy from the garbage dump.

How the Lord pulls us up out of the garbage of our past and dances with us on top of it.

Contact me and I will send you a book for $20.00.

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